Peak One Campground, Frisco, Colorado
Yesterday while working in the campground I rounded a corner and came upon an elderly gentleman being pulled by three small leashed dogs. I’d met him the day before. His wife had eventually tugged at his elbow, saying, “Enough already, let the man go do his work.” He seemed lonely, though I only thought it because he liked to talk. This morning his wife was not present, only the man and his dogs. I said hello and we talked about dogs for a few minutes. One dog, a white terrier, feisty and keen, was the focus of his comments. As he talked the three leashes became intertwined but the man didn’t seem to notice. The terrier had been his daughter’s dog, he said. She got him when she learned she had breast cancer. She wanted the companionship. The man talked without emotion, in that way people from Kansas do. The flatness of his voice settled on me in emotional way. I began to tear up. “She told me she wanted me to raise him if she didn’t make it.” We’d had a rain the night before and the tacky aroma of pine was suddenly apparent. I was wearing a jacket, it being cold. I took off my glasses and wiped my tears. The little white terrier was busy sniffing the edge of my boot, likely picking up Lucy’s scent–Lucy, waiting patiently for my return down the hill and across the campground.
Opened your tender heart. And mine . May all beings know consolation.
Loneliness comes in all shapes and sizes…kind of you to listen to his story
Thanks for sharing this tender, human moment, Doug.
Your experience as a campground ranger runs parallel to mine as a nurse- meeting new people everyday, getting small excerpts of their lives. It’s difficult to realize the hardship that so many have dealt with in their lives, but always leaves me with a sense of openness to those around me and gracious to be able to have such encounters.
Thanks for your note, Allie. Yes, you have ample opportunity to be open and supportive. And I know you don’t take that responsibility for granted. Good to have you here at “…the house…”.